My Sunday: Sarah-Jane Duff Amy Nelmes Bissett

My Sunday: Sarah-Jane Duff Amy Nelmes Bissett
Auckland fashion designer Sarah Jane Duff in her Karangahape Rd shop and studio.
Auckland fashion designer Sarah Jane Duff in her Karangahape Rd shop and studio. Photo: JASON DORDAY / STUFF

Sarah-Jane Duff is a self-confessed cheerleader for the "fat girl", with the plus-size designer recently opening LaLA boutique in Auckland's Newton. Her high-end label, Lost and Led Astray, caters for women size 14 to 24. She spoke to Amy Nelmes Bissett about what she wishes the world would understand about overweight people and her treehouse dream.

I am plus size, but I hadn't really thought about doing plus size fashion until I was offered a job at The Carpenter's Daughter, a popular New Zealand fashion label by designer Caroline Marr. She offered me a job after I finished my fashion degree at Auckland University of Technology, and it changed my world. It changed the way I looked at my body and the way I look at other people's bodies.

I had to train myself to make patterns for plus-size; the proportions are different, and it makes the way you cut the design very tricky. It's definitely harder, and that's why there aren't that many amazing plus-size clothes. Plus-size design scares a lot of designers.

Duff's job at The Carpenter's Daughter changed the way she looked at her body.
Duff's job at The Carpenter's Daughter changed the way she looked at her body. Photo: JASON DORDAY / STUFF

I decided to launch my own label Lost and Led Astray three years ago. I felt ready. I was lucky that, in my niche area of plus size, I was trusted in my designs. I was initially selling online and through ten stockists until three months ago, when I opened my first store on Karangahape Road in Newton, Auckland.


I used to work seven days a week, but my New Year's Resolution was to have at least one day off; otherwise, I was going to burn out. I work some pretty crazy hours when I am head down, bum up, and I can work until about 10 pm. So, for me, a Sunday has to be a slower day. I like to catch up on my sleep, and I'd probably sleep until 10 am, and then make myself some poached eggs and a pot of coffee.

Sometimes I feel like a treat, and I'll go to Fort Green at St Kevin's Arcade near my shop. It's my favourite place to go. They have the most amazing sourdough and ricotta. And they make them both on site. I always have a long black, even if I'm not eating. I'll take it to go.

Duff relies on her Sunday wind downs as her work hours during the week can be "crazy".
Duff relies on her Sunday wind downs as her work hours during the week can be "crazy". . Photo: JASON DORDAY / STUFF

I've always struggled with the idea that fat is lazy. It's very important to me to take away the negativity that surrounds the word fat. I'm an active person and an active relaxer. In the week, I go to Fat Yoga, a class we created with yoga teacher Kristina Cavit. It's been such a treat for me to see all these different women, from all different backgrounds, come and feel safe and enjoy their body.

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On a Sunday, I prefer to swap yoga and go for a walk in the bush. I grew up in the country in Thames, so I really need to go back to nature to recharge. I'd usually go to the Waitakere Ranges, but you can't really go there now because of the kauri tree disease. It's just so sad.

Duff often works until 10pm, but a better work-life balance has prevailed so far this year, she says.
Duff often works until 10 pm, but a better work-life balance has prevailed so far this year, she says. Photo: JASON DORDAY / STUFF

Recently, I went to Matapouri Mermaid Pool down at Tutukaka, and it was incredible to see one of nature's wonders.

If I stay at home, I'll usually end up working. I live above my shop so I can just go downstairs. But I try not to on a Sunday. So I sometimes like to get out of the city and escape for a while. My parents now live in the Coromandel, and they have a farm just before Coromandel Town. They have a little cabin which is quite basic, but it's really amazing. When I need a real recharge, I will stay the night and come to the city on a Monday.

I like to make people look great, but I always wear the same clothes, no matter what. I have my black uniform, which is currently my Doc sandals, very wide-leg pleated pants which I am obsessed with, and then I always wear a dress over the top.

At fat yoga, Duff says she enjoys seeing women from all different backgrounds "come and feel safe, and enjoy their body".
At fat yoga, Duff says she enjoys seeing women from all different backgrounds "come and feel safe, and enjoy their body". Photo: JASON DORDAY / STUFF

I design a lot of dresses, so at least I have a lot to choose from. But that's always me; even if I am going for a walk, that's what I will be wearing. And I always wear black. I find it classy and sophisticated.

I love to watch something lame and slightly mind-numbing. The trashier, the better, or crime. I don't know why those two relax me and help me zone out, but they work. And in the evening, I like to watch a movie and cook something kind of naughty, but with the idea that if you make it, then it isn't actually that bad for you. Last week, I made nachos, and they were delicious.

The one thing I won't do on my Sunday is cleaning or meal prep. I prefer to do that in the week when it happens. I hate the thought of dedicating a day to cleaning. I get really annoyed with my friends who have to spend the day doing washing.

Duff lives above her shop, and indulges in some good trash in her weekend downtime.
Duff lives above her shop, and indulges in some good trash in her weekend downtime. Photo: JASON DORDAY / STUFF

I have an obsession with treehouses. So my dream Sunday would be waking up in a treehouse in the middle of nowhere and with no one else around. But there would be a waterfall so I could go for a swim, and a garden so I could pick my own food. I'd just bliss out on nature. It would be a little taste of what my dream life would look like.

It's important to Duff that she works to "take away the negativity that surrounds the word fat".
It's important to Duff that she works to "take away the negativity that surrounds the word fat". Photo: JASON DORDAY / STUFF
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